My brother is awful. My mom has custody of his kids and the youngest one broke his arm jumping off the swing because he saw a spider. It took brother two weeks to visit him despite him living two minutes away. He also tried to strangle me that one time but I'm so mad about him just not caring about my nephew. And then he brags about his great job, but won't help pay for childcare. And he's dating this girl and is basically super dad to her kids...like, WTF?